Jumbled

(Once Upon a Time spoilers for the latest ep:)

the revelation that his wife is not pregnant makes you fall into each others’ arms?

But the fact that’s he married, that he chose to be with the woman he’s pledged to spend the rest of his life with (instead of you even though he ‘loooooves’ you), he’s sleeping with her, spending time with her, LIVING with her, you’re able to ignore?

WHAT THE HELL, SNOW.

I spent the entire episode shouting at you, telling you that yes, you should be strong, force him to stay back, because he’s spouting this “I love you both” bullshit, tell him to get his life straight first, but then you throw it all out the window cause ‘oh hey guess what my wife thought she was pregnant cause I’m dickin’ her down crazy but now I guess not so let’s make out’??

YOU DESERVE THE FULL ATTENTION OF SOMEONE WHO CLAIMS TO LOVE YOU.  Don’t set a bad example.  Your fairy-tale-self version was stronger, why aren’t you?  Don’t make decisions you’ll regret.

Let’s take a moment here to reflect: all he said was “she’s not pregnant” and blam, make-out city.
Did he say, “I’m divorced?” (obviously best option in this situation)
Did he say “we’re separated?” (better than nothing but still shaky territory)
Did he EVEN say “I’ve decided to leave her?” (at the least?)
NOPE.

I am enraged.  Fuck you, writers.  You wrote this gorgeous character, gave her all these lovely characteristics and such a vibrant personality, and now she’s making these terrible decisions that says it’s okay to let yourself be treated like a second-rate individual because of feelings??  Shouldn’t love be a validation of yourself instead of something that tears you down?

I know how destructive these examples can be.  Fix it right the fuck now, show, or I am done with you.

ALSO: that ‘mysterious’ writer guy?  Can you say emotionally manipulative bastard?  Red flags all over the fucking place.